The Power of Love
Posted on February 8th, 2010 in Uncategorized |
The LA Times reports on the physiological consequences of falling in love.
Let’s put it this way: They’re good.
Arthur Aron, a social psychologist at Stony Brook University in New York, has done brain scans on people newly in love and found that after that first magical meeting or perfect first date, a complex system in the brain is activated that is essentially “the same thing that happens when a person takes cocaine.”
All that without the inconvenience of Mexican drug violence.
Activation of this part of the brain is primarily responsible for causing the sometimes bizarre behavior of new couples, which is linked to motivation and achieving goals: excessive energy, losing sleep, euphoric feelings and, occasionally, anxiety and obsession when they’re separated from their objetd’amour….
Plus: Happy partnerships (married or not) correlate to greater immune system function and longevity. So while love may not be quite all that you need, it’s certainly a fine start.
8 Responses
2/8/2010 7:02 pm
I hate falling in love. Because love doesn’t really exist. I’ll never do it again.
2/8/2010 8:45 pm
All that without the inconvenience of Mexican drug violence.
Not up on, say, your Shakespeare are you, e.g., Romeo & Juliet, Othello. Even Plato’s Socrates had some unkind words to say about love, IIRC.
2/8/2010 9:12 pm
You said it, Marcel! Yup, love sucks! Makes you crazy and mostly horribly depressed as I remember. And I like not crazy and fairly cheerful. Life is much much better without love.
2/8/2010 10:42 pm
Yeah, you remember correctly, at least as I remember it on the first part. Cheerful and painless is good…I’m okay with that. But crazy is horribly depressing…life is much better without crazy.
2/8/2010 11:50 pm
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2/9/2010 1:42 am
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2/9/2010 9:39 am
And look what happened to him, MDV. Probably the biggest loss of them all from back then.
2/10/2010 11:26 am
Hope this post means you’re in love, Richard!
Have a Happy Valentine’s Day!